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Search Lost Relatives! People Search: How To Rapidly And Effectively Discover Those You Have Not Contacted For A Long Time

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Recently my wife's sister got curious concerning what had happened to her first husband after they broken up. That marriage had ended badly and they hadn't been in contact for just about thirty years. She tried looking for her ex-husband's name on Google and Yahoo but didn't get any hits. Knowing I do research online in my work as a professional writer, she asked if I might find out anything.

I write for business and technical publications, hence I use numerous high-priced databases for in-depth research. However I suggested she try an easier alternative - a solution I use myself when I want to find somebody quickly and easily. I recommended she try one of the people search database services. Even the superior ones cost so less, they're practically free. Most offer a trial period. I gave her the name of one to try.

She was dubious. She's not very comfortable using her computer for much more than email. Her stab at the search engines had already left her worried. Now she was going to have to "sign up for something and learn something totally new... oh my goodness," was the way she put it.

Yet, later the same day I suggested it, she emailed back impatiently. In just minutes, she'd discovered all kinds of information about her ex. It turned out that he'd done something of a turnaround after they'd split. Their break up resulted from fights over his serious drinking problem. After they broke up, though, he'd ultimately gone back to med school, gotten his MD and become an orthopedic surgeon. He'd even been instrumental in inventing some sort of device used by other doctors in his field.

Regrettably, the poor fellow had passed, but at least my sister-in-law found console in making out that things had worked out for him after all. She said that even though their relationship ended in the worst imaginable way, it had started from a good point. She said she hadn't actually wanted to contact him. She just wanted to know what had happened to him.

Sometimes all we wish for is just to satisfy our inquistiveness about what happened to someone we've lost track of. Many of us have an old pal or acquaintance we still wonder about.

A Better Way to Find People

I suspect that's what makes people searching so hot. As many as half a million times a month, somebody searches on Google alone, looking for a way to find a lost individual. Whether it's someone from the past with whom we've lost touch, or someone we met last weekend and desire to see again, were always searching for others.

Unluckily, most general searches fail. Just like Googling failed for my sister-in-law. The information is out there, somewhere. But being compelled to sift through so many unrelated results makes it nearly impossible.

By the way - nearly all searchers don't know this - search engine results don't actually extend beyond about a thousand entries. Even when the search engine results page says they found millions and millions of hits, they don't really bother to dig it up and give you access to all of it. They're really only estimating from their own database tables. Even they know it's a waste of time.

When You Go for a Personal Search Service, Here's What to Look For

If you decide to try out a private search database, here are the things I've found important to think about during a review

Free vs. Paid

I've been dissatisfied by the free services. Their main concern seems to be to try and get you to click on a few pay-per-click ads they're displaying.

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